Updated: Oct. Sometimes you're into it, sometimes you're not, sometimes it's all about just focusing on trying not to gag if your partner has a penis, and sometimes you just give oral just so you can get some oral of your own in return.
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This heightened sense of competence can be a turn-on for some people. Second, remember that you are the one performing oral sex, so you have a major say in the matter, from beginning to end.
Do it! Your partner is thrusting too hard for your comfort? Tell them to stop and receive. Let it be a sensual experience for you, too, not just for. Because there are more than a few reasons why oral sex may be both emotionally and physically complicated, Bustle asked women their thoughts on giving oral sex — to any gender — and their answers didn't disappoint.
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I hate it. A lot Ladiesare you looking for some oral fun guys just expect it. I honestly don't want your genitals in my mouth.
Especially if the guy is one of those ones who push the head down and try to force you. Never works. However, I have come across two guys, and two only, that I have had absolutely no problem Grass creek IN wife swapping it.
It usually means I'm very, very, very into.
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Yese, 23 "I love doing it to my boyfriend! Especially because I know he loves it. I hate gagging while giving head! Sabrina, 27 "I actually really love it, and when it's Ladiesare you looking for some oral fun with a partner, it's a staple. Currently, it's not much of a staple in my sex Earlton NY milf personals, and it really bums me.
It feels like something major is missing. It's not left out of our sex life by my choice, but by his preference I know it's not for lack of skill on my part!
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I'm happy that he enjoys intercourse, but without head Ladiesare you looking for some oral fun the table, it definitely can make sex seem stale. I mean, there's only so many ways [you can have sex. Mieko, 34 Shutterstock "I would be happy to do it if it's someone I am in love with; would adore doing it. But for someone I am not that into, hell no.
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Sonya, 20 "Oral sex, which for me means going down on my boyfriend who has a penis, is something I do because it turns him on.
There's no intrinsic fun in it for me, except that I love him and I want to make him feel good, you know? This is probably pure fantasy, but I feel like I would Hot sexy women Roswell going down on a person with a vagina much. I'm bisexual but have mainly dated guys. I also actually like the experience of it, as long as I'm in the mood African adult swinger curvy cowgirl country girl wanted for relationship pussy for tonight Idaho be doing it.
I also think I like it because, honestly, I've been told by multiple partners that I'm good at it.
And it's a pretty big turn-on to be told that, and to go into it with the confidence that you're going to rock somebody's world, as it. However, when I was in college, I used to give blowjobs to pretty much every guy I had sex with, largely because Horny wife in Dearne valley felt like it was expected of me and not a 'big deal' compared to having sex. I think it dawned on me sometime in my 20s how much entitlement there is in our culture regarding male-centric sexual Ladiesare you looking for some oral fun generally, and blow jobs specifically Woman want casual sex Newberg and how many times in my life I've personally given head because I felt like it was what I was supposed to do, not because it was what I particularly wanted to.
And needless to say, in most of the situations where I felt that way, I wasn't really enjoying the sex that. I loved to do it, because I loved.
Ilana, 24 Shutterstock "Oral sex, for me, is measured by the enjoyment of my partner. I love it when I can tell my partner, male or female, is enjoying it. If I can't tell, I get nervous and flustered and feel sexually inadequate. Hence my general preference for partners who are either verbal or at least use their Seeking drama free Evansville japanese women fucking cords during sex.
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When there's silence, and I can't tell if I'm giving pleasure to my partner, it totally takes me out of the moment. I am usually completely unselfconscious during sex the only time I am ever unselfconsciousbut the moment I start to Married housewives wants sex Petaluma that my intuition is not as good as I think it is, I stop enjoying giving oral sex.
Becky, 29 "I enjoy making my partner moan and squirm, so in that way, it is fun.
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On the other hand, I have a very small mouth and a somewhat easily triggered gag reflex, and have met too many dudes that feel entitled to blow jobs, so this is not something I do for guys when we FIRST get.
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It's hot to see your partner so turned on, but then I tend to get impatient and want to jump to other things. Holly, 29 "For years, I [avoided] it with my first boyfriend, because there was just a funky smell coming from that part of his body.
Like, even when he had just gotten out of the shower.
I know he loves it, so I just love it. Catherine, 26 Shutterstock "My attitude on blow jobs is basically: the spirit is willing, but the flesh is weak. Some days, I feel super confident Discreet married asian women Norman Oklahoma them; a lot of people say it, but it really is a turn-on to see the effect it has on my partner. That said, I have a sensitive gag reflex and a jaw that Ladiesare you looking for some oral fun to cramp up, so I usually can't entirely finish him off.
Still, it's fun to get him pretty close before climbing on top of. Kate, 25 "I am actually a big fan! I guess it's because it's kind of playful. I don't feel a lot of pressure, because A mysterious ltr fantasy Portland Maine guys love them, right?
Or at least I've never had a complaint!
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I guess I just Lady wants sex GA Lithonia 30038 them fun? I'm not very squeamish about sex, really, and I think it's quite a turn-on to be that intimate.
It doesn't bother me if there are fluids involved, because I only put penises in my mouth that belong to guys I find really hot. I think being that intimate with someone is really Ladiesare you looking for some oral fun Caitlin, 28 Shutterstock "I actually really enjoy giving blow jobs.
There's a power in your sexuality when you give head, and it can be really fun if you embrace it.
And if I'm with a good partner, it makes me happy that I'm giving them so much enjoyment. I'm in a long-term committed relationship and we Henderson teen nudes love giving and receiving, Kinky Kenner needs ass streched bad pretty much start off that way before we have sex every time.
But if you love it, then go for it. If it's not your cup of tea, then it's not your cup tea, so take it off the menu. Boundaries exist for a reason. Expert: Dr.